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Despite being a box office hit, it’s not as warmly remembered today as Sleepless in Seattle, which always surprised me – probably because I never cared for Sleepless (or its inspiration, the sappy, unbearable An Affair to Remember), while Mail still charms effortlessly.
David Cornelius • WordPress • Jul 1, 2012
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In Sleepless, the movie that embodied a woman's fantasies was An Affair to Remember; for men, it was The Dirty Dozen.
James Berardinelli • ReelViews
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That earlier film was partly inspired by "An Affair to Remember," and this one is inspired by "The Shop Around the Corner," but both are really inspired by the appeal of Ryan and Hanks, who have more winning smiles than most people have expressions.
RogerEbert.com
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The dialogue is witty and there are a few truly hilarious scenes — such as Rita Wilson (Hanks' real-life wife) trying in vein to explain why women love "An Affair to Remember" to two men.
Deseret News • Mar 15, 2026
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A leitmotif is the old Cary Grant-Deborah Kerr weepie "An Affair to Remember", and its key scene on the Empire State Building is echoed with a nice twist in"Sleepless in Seattle".
BBC • Dec 18, 2000
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Evoked by "Sleepless in Seattle," through clips and numerous references in dialogue and soundtrack music, is Leo McCarey's sentimental 1957 classic "An Affair to Remember," a movie that instantly reduces every woman in the new film to tears.
VINCENT CANBY • The New York Times
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The best thing about You've Got Mail, Nora Ephron's remake of Ernst Lubitsch's delightful The Shop Around the Corner , is that its modernity is mostly for show.
Director Nora Ephron wrote the screenplay with Delia Ephron, based on the 1940 movie The Shop Around the Corner.
(As does its inspiration, The Shop Around the Corner.
David Cornelius • WordPress • Jul 1, 2012
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Written by Nora and Delia Ephron based on The Shop Around the Corner, screenplay by Samson Raphaelson, and on Parfumerie, a play by Miklós László.
However, in Nora Ephron's latest romantic comedy, You've Got Mail (an update of Ernst Lubitsch's 1940 movie, The Shop Around the Corner), all that's required of these two popular performers is that they effervesce.
James Berardinelli • ReelViews
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Now it's my job to make readers aware of Ernst Lubitsch's The Shop Around the Corner (1940), which writer/director Nora Ephron has remade as You've Got Mail.
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Mildly reminiscent of "Sleepless in Seattle" as it involves various bi-coastal "near misses" - where the two would-be lovers just miss running into each other (one could call this something like "Mobile in Manhattan") - the film is a charming and fluffy little exercise in romance and comedy that thankfully at least partially breaks the mold of the stereotypical romantic comedy.
Yes, Serendipity is one of those "soul mate" movies like Sleepless in Seattle and An Affair to Remember.
Mark Lubischer, Betty Jo Tucker • Reel Talk Reviews
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The will-they-ever-meet concept behind "Serendipity" may not be all that original, but this picture isn't a "Sleepless In Seattle"-style sickeningly saccharine confection.
Spliced Wire
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Basically, it’s Sleepless In Seattle all over again, with the film striving desperately to keep its two leads apart until the end, so you get lots of those ‘she arrives in a taxi just as he leaves’-type scenes.
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Like an East Coast variation of Sleepless in Seattle, Serendipity is a movie romance in which the lovers spend most of their screen time apart.
Rochester Goes Out
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This is the characteristic that most annoyed me about Next Stop, Wonderland and, to a lesser degree, bothered me about both Sleepless in Seattle and You've Got Mail.
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In movies, the epistolary story has taken many forms from an exchange of finely wrought letters in “84 Charing Cross Road” to the online correspondence between Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks in “You’ve Got Mail,” where neither realizes the other is a despised business rival.
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Where a Hollywood revamp like You’ve Got Mail facilely updated director Ernst Lubitsch’s 1940 classic by substituting e-mail for mash notes, The Lunchbox makes a point of keeping the communiqués analog – an old-fashioned gesture in a local culture still caught between high-tech modernity and tactile traditionalism.
Adam Nayman • The Globe and Mail • Mar 21, 2014
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A clever setup that harkens back to “You’ve Got Mail” and “The Shop Around the Corner” doesn’t quite pay off in India’s warm-hearted comedy-drama “The Lunchbox.”
Kyle Smith • New York Post • Feb 26, 2014
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It is the Indian equivalent of Eat Drink Man Woman with a little You’ve Got Mail thrown in for good measure.
Tony Wong • Toronto Star • Mar 20, 2014
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As a matter fact, were it not for the setting, the language and the mouth-watering shots of local cuisine, you might very well mistake it for Nora Ephron's You've Got Mail.
Concrete Playground
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Writer-director Ritesh Batra makes his feature debut with The Lunchbox , an impressive romantic drama in the vein of Ernst Lubitsch ’s The Shop Around the Corner (or You’ve Got Mail , for modern audiences).
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This latest iteration involves that bickering-friends-turned-lovers trope familiar from Meg Ryan movies ( You’ve Got Mail and When Harry Met Sally ); the matchmaking element from Clueless and The Parent Trap ; and a lovably nerdy female protagonist reminiscent of Josie Geller ( Never Been Kissed ) and Laney Boggs ( She’s All That ).
Kristen Yoonsoo Kim • The Hollywood Reporter • Jun 20, 2018
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Set It Up feels like a return to that era, when smaller-scale star vehicles like Picture Perfect , You’ve Got Mail , One Fine Day , and While You Were Sleeping were regular fixtures at the multiplex.
It’s a feel-good throwback to Nineties romantic comedies like When Harry Met Sally and You’ve Got Mail that left me — and a never-to-be-disclosed number of Netflix viewers — warm and nostalgic for the simple pleasure of falling in love.
Monica Castillo, William Bastone, R.C. Baker, Peter Noel, Laura Bell, Michael Atkinson, Kalyn Corrigan • The Village Voice • Jun 26, 2018
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Rom-coms pretty much defined mainstream cinema in the ’90s with classics like When Harry Met Sally, You’ve Got Mail, Sleepless in Seattle, One Fine Day, and Jerry Maguire.
But the ’90s were a golden age, and movies like My Best Friend’s Wedding , Jerry Maguire , Sleepless in Seattle, and Pretty Woman were among the biggest hits of their respective years.
Rom-coms pretty much defined mainstream cinema in the ’90s with classics like When Harry Met Sally, You’ve Got Mail, Sleepless in Seattle, One Fine Day, and Jerry Maguire.
His Girl Friday poster
The best romantic movies aren't these dreamy tales of lovers destined for happiness; they're the movies--Gone With the Wind, His Girl Friday and Adam's Rib come to mind--that dramatize exactly why two characters are perfectly matched.
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Thus, like Sleepless in Seattle (1993), a film with which it otherwise has nothing in common, Going the Distance is a romance in which the principals spend much of their screen time apart, which gives first-time screenwriter Geoff LaTulippe plenty of room to fill with eclectic supporting characters.
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So it's shaping up as a long haul, with certain echoes of Ephron's classic exercise in delayed gratification, Sleepless in Seattle, without being nearly as extreme.
Review Sandra Hall, Sandra Hall • The Sydney Morning Herald • Aug 27, 2010
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As movies about displaced sweethearts go, " Going the Distance " is stuck somewhere between "Sleepless in Seattle" and a hard place.
Oblivion poster
There are bits of “Planet of the Apes,’’ “2001,’’ the “Matrix’’ movies (Morgan Freeman, as chief Scav, resembles a cross between Laurence Fishburne’s Morpheus and Bill Russell), “The Day the Earth Stood Still,’’ the Death Star in “Star Wars,’’ and, I’m not making this up, “Sleepless in Seattle.’’
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Oblivion must be the only science-fiction film that borrows substantially from I Am Legend, WALL-E and Sleepless in Seattle — itself a remake of 1957’s An Affair to Remember, which was a remake of 1939’s Love Affair.
Richard Corliss • TIME • Apr 19, 2013
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In his dreams, he meets up with a woman (Olga Kurylenko) atop the Empire State Building, just like Sleepless in Seattle.
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The best romantic movies aren't these dreamy tales of lovers destined for happiness; they're the movies--Gone With the Wind, His Girl Friday and Adam's Rib come to mind--that dramatize exactly why two characters are perfectly matched.
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"While You Were Sleeping" is a sentimental successor to "Sleepless In Seattle," and so much like the popular Nora Ephron picture that a more suitable title would have been "Comatose in Chicago."
The Philadelphia Inquirer • Apr 21, 1995
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Pullman, who in film after film (from “Sleepless in Seattle” to “Sommersby”) has played the guy who loses the girl, finally emerges as a full-fledged leading man here.
Dan Webster Staff • The Spokesman-Review • Apr 21, 1995
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When -- and for that matter, why -- did Sleepless in Seattle become the sine qua non for any critical blurb for a romantic comedy?
While You Were Sleeping movie likely to appeal to the Sleepless in Seattle crowd, is a perfect example of this unoriginal-but-enjoyable type of film making.
If Sleepless in Seattle was designer romance, While You Were Sleeping is comfortable fit: loose-knit sweaters, lumberjack shirts, blue jeans and Timberland boots.
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And these days they are inevitably compared to "Sleepless in Seattle," "When Harry Met Sally . . .
Deseret News • Mar 15, 2026
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But the film is directed like a zany slapstick remake of Pretty In Pink (mixed with You've Got Mail), and all the goofy antics undermine any potential for actual comedy or romance.
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Sam's been carrying on a relationship via e-mail, text message and Internet chat, "You've Got Mail"-style, with a boy called Nomad.
Eric D. Snider • Eric D. Snider • Jul 16, 2004
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Most of their scenes consists of them talking online, because no romance is complete without the “You’ve Got Mail” rip-off, so we’re subjected to boring scenes of the two chatting online, cue internet product placement, and PM’ing on a cell phone, cue cell phone product placement, because this movie is, like, so totally modern.
Felix Vasquez • Cinema Crazed • May 29, 2005
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There are some nice ideas here and the central gimmick just about works, despite uncomfortable echoes of You’ve Got Mail.
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Or maybe director Mark Rosman just caught up with "You've Got Mail" on HBO 7.
Stephen Hunter • The Washington Post • Jul 16, 2004
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Promising to meet at the top of the Empire State Building in three months (yes, just like "Sleepless in Seattle," which paid homage to the Grant-Kerr movie), they anticipate the love of their lives.
Desson Howe • The Washington Post • Oct 21, 1994
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A remake of both 1939’s Love Affair and its remake, the 1957 romantic gusher An Affair to Remember (the film that inspired Sleepless in Seattle‘s moony-eyed fetishization of the Empire State Building), the new, high-glitz Love Affair is an eerie contradiction, a cornball potboiler sprinkled with media-age razzle-dazzle.
Familiar, that is, to anyone who has seen the first "Love Affair," "An Affair to Remember" or "Sleepless in Seattle."
Deseret News • Mar 15, 2026
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Where City of Angels tried to overlay Los Angeles with an ethereal, spiritual quality that that city simply doesn't have (the only movie I've ever seen that came close to bestowing a soul upon L.A. is Steve Martin's wonderful L.A. Story), Mail offers us a fantasy version of New York, the one we'd all like to live in, that only serves to enhance the film's genuine New York magic.
MaryAnn Johanson • Flick Filosopher
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The two teens exchange emails, making this feel like the gay teen version of rom-com essential “You’ve Got Mail” in the best of ways.
Novelist Becky Albertalli and 'This Is Us' screenwriters Elizabeth Berger and Isaac Aptaker use the anonymous pen pal device from such films as "The Shop Around the Corner" and "You've Got Mail" as their obstacle and up the ante with a blackmail threat with all kinds of romantic fallout, but it is their finely tuned situations and sharp dialogue delivered by a thoroughly charming cast that makes this "Simon" something special.
Reeling Reviews • Jan 10, 2020
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It’s You’ve Got Mail for the Grindr era, but sweeter, and with better playlists.
The Ringer • Mar 16, 2018
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Both express their fear and desire of coming out as they navigate their regular lives at high school, falling for each other in the process à la You’ve Got Mail.
Chandler Levack • The Globe and Mail • Mar 15, 2018
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In fact, not since "Sleepless in Seattle" kept stars Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan separated for much of its duration has a film deliberately conspired to avoid exactly what its potential audience wants to see, and that's the pairing and hopeful chemistry between its two stars.
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(Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan epitomized this concept in Sleepless in Seattle.)
Chris Wagner • Yahoo! GeoCities
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When We First Met poster
Instead of drawing inspiration from such romantic comedies as "Sleepless in Seattle" or "You've Got Mail," it recycles the major plot catalyst of "Big."
NOLA.com
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Instead of drawing inspiration from such romantic comedies as "Sleepless in Seattle" or "You've Got Mail," it recycles the major plot catalyst of "Big."
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It's a wonderful romantic comedy that borrows the basic formula of Sleepless in Seattle (1993) -- two lovers fated for each other but tantalizingly kept apart -- and brings it to life.
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Cheerful, accomplished and straightforwardly commercial, "Next Stop Wonderland" is basically the second best version of "Sleepless in Seattle" ever made--and that's not a criticism.
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The movie also is hindered by Ryan's performance, which is almost a caricature of the persona that worked in When Harry Met Sally ... and Sleepless in Seattle.
USA TODAY • Dec 24, 2001
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Much like the Empire State Building was a cornerstone of Sleepless in Seattle, New York City's Brooklyn Bridge lays the foundation in Kate & Leopold, as the film commences with a sepia-tinted August 28, 1876 ceremony commemorating that structure's erection, a word that elicits a nervous sexual giggle from Stuart Besser (Liev Schreiber), a time traveler from 125 years hence.
Nitrate Online
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Ryan, of course, has made a great career ("Sleepless in Seattle," "You've Got Mail") playing women who have a lot of trouble finding the right man, despite the fact that she is very attractive and charming.
She is starting to show her age and, here, is not the fresh faced young thing that graced the screen in "When Harry Met Sally" or "Sleepless in Seattle."
Reeling Reviews • Apr 29, 2020
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Meg Ryan does this sort of thing about as well as it can possibly be done, and after " Sleepless in Seattle " and " You've Got Mail ," here is another ingenious plot that teases us with the possibility that true love will fail, while winking that, of course, it will prevail.
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On second thoughts, "together" doesn't quite explain the state in which they find themselves in The Lake House, which is a Sleepless in Seattle-type love story - an example of the delayed gratification model, where circumstances conspire to ensure that the lovers spend much of the picture apart.
Sandra Hall, reviewer • The Sydney Morning Herald • Jul 21, 2006
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Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan had it in Sleepless in Seattle.
Combine equal parts "Memento" and "Sleepless in Seattle" and you might concoct something like "The Lake House," an Americanization of the fascinating 2000 Korean romantic fantasy "Il Mare," in which two solitary souls make a connection via enchanted letters.
Like "Sleepless in Seattle" and, to a similar extent, "Heat", the audience for "House" has come to the theater looking to see two stars play together on screen.
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In Sleepless, the movie that embodied a woman's fantasies was An Affair to Remember; for men, it was The Dirty Dozen.
James Berardinelli • ReelViews
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And the passage of decades has only strengthened the film's reputation - so much so that in 1993's Sleepless In Seattle, when Tom Hanks is called upon to name the ultimate guys' movie, he invokes The Dirty Dozen.